• Such unconventional arrangements often lead to regret and heartache.
  • Many young people are eager to experience the aspects of marriage without fully understanding the commitment and struggles involved. 

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Many young people engage in relationships without following the necessary steps, often opting for the "come we stay" method, which has become increasingly common.
While some believe they have avoided the stigma associated with traditional marriage, the challenges they face can have a devastating impact on both partners.

For instance, a young man who is unemployed may find himself relying on his parents for financial support while trying to fulfill the role of a provider. When financial difficulties arise, he may feel compelled to end the relationship.

Such unconventional arrangements often lead to regret and heartache. Many young people are eager to experience the aspects of marriage without fully understanding the commitment and struggles involved. The situation becomes even more complicated if the woman becomes pregnant, creating additional pressure on both partners who lack stable income and may have to rely on parents who are unaware of their living situation.

Parents should engage with their children about the appropriate time to seek and settle down with a partner. Educational institutions should organize counseling sessions to discuss the pros and cons of such relationships and the commitment they entail. By doing so, young people can gain insight and focus on their studies, delaying marriage until they are better prepared for fulfilling relationships.

Youth should avoid rushing into early commitments without adequate preparation. Patience is essential; young people should wait for the right moment to settle down and prepare for the responsibilities that come with it.