- Dating in this era when love cons are everywhere, preying rather than praying for good partners has become very difficult.
In this era when love cons are everywhere, getting good partners has become very difficult.
Many have resorted to situationships, a romantic or sexual relationship that lack clear boundaries, commitment or a defined label.
It is often characterized by a lack of communication and clarity, leaving one or both parties unsure of their position in the relationship.
Many things trigger situationships, including fear of commitment, a desire for casual dating, or uncertainty about one's own feelings or intentions.
Take for example a young woman in her early 20s who's still trying to figure out her adulthood. What can she do in a serious relationship? This is someone who's still having fun and is in her age of deciding whether she likes sweet wine or dry wine.
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She tends to prioritize her happiness before commitment issues. She is also not ready to remain in a committed relationship with a stranger she met at the university corridors. I'm not saying that relationships cannot work because some have and are actually doing perfectly fine.
We've heard of stories of young lovers killing themselves because of "ripped hearts" and failed love; I mean, getting heartbroken at 18 or 22 is not that easy.
Situationships are enjoyable for those who prefer flexible, low-pressure relationships but can also be hurtful for those who seek more structure or commitment.