- Staying silent will make you fight with your inner self to choose peace instead of revenge. In the beginning, when rejected, one often feels the need to seek revenge. It is normal since we all have feelings and emotions.If you still feel the urge for revenge after being away from your rival for a while, you still have some inner work to do, which is okay.
Staying silent will help you become more mature and find peace within yourself. The phrase "find peace within yourself” means you need to accept that someone was in your life, that they hurt you, and that you are trying to rebuild your life.
It would help if you were not too hard on yourself. Of course, we can take responsibility for the parts we played because we saw the warning signs but ignored them. However, we cannot take into account the narcissist’s actions. It is, therefore, necessary to make peace with yourself. Don’t beat yourself up. Instead of blaming yourself, try to heal and move on.
Staying silent will make you fight with your inner self to choose peace instead of revenge. In the beginning, when rejected, one often feels the need to seek revenge. It is normal since we all have feelings and emotions. If you still feel the urge for revenge after being away from your rival for a while, you still have some inner work to do, which is okay.
Staying silent will take your whole life back from their world. Narcissists mostly want to control your life. When you remain quiet and fail to give them any reactions, you have taken the control back. They will no longer have anything to feed their egos off. This leaves them with no choice but to leave you alone. Silence is the most potent weapon against narcissists. Ignoring them deprives them of access back into your life.
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